Womanhood...

If there is one thing that runs the world that would be ‘Womanhood’. There is no other creation of God which is as beautiful as a woman. A woman symbolizes love, grace, poise, sacrifice, austerity, respect, status, growth, prosperity, and other fine traits known to humanity.
She is sister, daughter, care giver, grandmother, wife, lover, friend...All these faces have been portrayed by her in a state of timelessness...

Current song on Radio, "I am so lonely, I have nobody to call my own..." ----he is describes there was a girl in life, how he lost it…these men don’t understand that there is only one life which v shud spend wid smone who luvs us madly, they first hurt them & then sing such a song sitting alone, instead if they have guts to accept the girl who is ready to spread smiles in their life, they never hav to sing this song….bcoz rarely woman accept dat they luv smone, it depends on men to dig the past or learn frm it & shud never allow the girl in present to walk away frm our lives…
...if v r alone at no point smone's luv can be exchanged for nething in world…

My first dedication on women's day goes to my Mom (mom stands for my mummy & granny both). Mom has to be the tower of strength for us all in the coming weeks, months and years. She did it, and she did it well. She was, and still is, a tribute to womanhood, and to motherhood. If we could give u a gift Mom, we would give u the ability to see urself as others see u, then u could really see how very special u are. U come in and out of our lives and leave footprints and memories engraved on our hearts forever. Ur courage in the face of adversity, and ur inner strength is truly a blessing to us all.
You are a shining gem to each of us. We appreciate the love u have shown to each of us, and last but not least, the way you have cared for Dad all those years. You are indeed a true ‘woman of heart’, a woman with great faith, and a wonderful role model to many.

It was such a close relationship, like best friends really and we'd tell each other just about everything
Ya, u guessed it right, the 2nd dedication goes to my sis. No one will ever have the same closeness to u my sis, purely because, as V get older, u remember things no one else can. U r remembering the same things and there’s a common background.
There is a special kind of freedom that sisters enjoy. In fact, this sister-to-sister relationship may be the envy of all other kinds of human relationships. Sisters seem to have discovered the freedom to share their innermost thoughts without fear. Sisters have no problem in sharing their true feelings, feelings which are intimate and personal, revealing hidden inner thoughts which could be revealed to no one else,

But, perhaps most special about the sister relationship is the freedom to totally and completely be themselves---no put on, no pretense, no cover-up, no fear of being put down. This luxury of being able to simply be yourself is a fantastic benefit. The real celebration is that here, too, is the very best of all best friends.

The last dedication goes to all my friends. It is one of the few relationships in life that we choose. We have no choice as to who our mother, our father, our brother, our sister, our son, our daughter is. God lovingly chooses them for us. Because He does, we readily recognize that they are sacred relationships. There are a few relationships, however, that should be recognized as at least equal to those mentioned above. These relationships are made sacred, not because they were chosen for us, but instead are sacred because they are chosen by us. One such relation is that of a friend.
If I am your friend, it is because I choose to be your friend. If you are my friend, it is because you choose to be my friend. Of all the people in the world, we have given our friendship one to the other. How sacred then is such a relationship!

Friendship is one of the few relationships in this life that never changes. The child eventually grows up and leaves home. The parent grows old and passes away. Brothers and sisters move away from home. At first the child needs the parent; later the parent needs the child. In friendship it doesn't have to be so. Many parents admit that about the time they start to learn how to be good parents, the children are grown. The same is true with many of our relationships in life. Any relationship if its based on friendship whether its parents, siblings, children or spouse, it holds stronger….

I can be your friend, even if you choose not to be my friend. In other words, to be a friend, friendship does not need to be reciprocated. This means that if I am your friend, I have chosen you from a wide field of possibilities. I did not choose you because you accepted an invitation from me, for I became your friend before you accepted. In some cases, I am your friend even if you never accept, but, oh, what an honor it is to have a friend!
(One of my friend lied to me today also…but Mez waiting in silence to hear the truth...Mom says that silence works in every relation, if one person is angry other shud be silent to hold the relation, just hav faith in wat u do…if u r true to ur relations, other person will understand that, u just need to be calm & wait….I know u r lying and God knws I will wait...)
I Believe that God hears to those who luv truly…luv can be for ur Mom, Sis, friend or lover...
It was women's day today, did u spread that special smile in the life of those special women around u who pray only for u...
The lady who cares wen u dint hav food, wen u dint sleep i.e.Mom,
The lady who cribs wen u dnt talk to her, dnt call or sms..i.e Sis,
The lady who wants to be wid u in ups & downs in life & doesn't care wat world thinks wen she walks wid u and portrays the prev two roles too i.e. Wife/Girlfriend.
That special woman will be wid u even wen world turns away the eyes…men may think wen they LIE to a female that they fooled her…but reality is if u liked a woman once in ur life…whether its ur mom, sis or lover…she can sense the reality in ur eyes…evn if u say u don’t care…they knw U DO…if a woman luvs u, she luvs u…there r no ifs & buts wid it & it doesn't change wid time
If u r a man remember: she can handle all the pains the world gives for u…but she cant handle the one you gave urself…
…remember she stays there wid u, even wen everyone leaves..

All that she has been to man through time. The mother, the beauty, the tease, the oppressed, the intellectual, the strong, the powerful, the muse...

Tell me u made that special woman smile or cry..??
Ciao
Sonal
ps: Current song on radio city, Hum dil de chuke sanam….superb song…the way she says after God I wil pray just for u….superb dedication…who offers such selfless luv to someone in today's world…?
Reminds me of one more such song.."Koi Jab tumhara hriday tod de, tadpta hua jab koi chod de, tab tum mere paas aana priye…Mera dar khula hai, khula hee rahega tumhare liye..."
For the non-hindi folks…it wont have that effect, but I wil try to convey the meaning…
"Smday wen world hurts u & leaves u in vain….at that time, come to me, my love, my arms were wide open for u & they always wil b…"
A friend sent me this link today...chk it out...WOMAN